If you are talking about romantic love, then I think friendship is far better. Loves has bondages. Love pulls you back instead friendship is better option in which you are always free to do anything, talk about almost everything. Your love cannot understand you as much as your friend does. If love becomes too lustrous it becomes an obsession! But in case of friendship the bond remains stron. Infact, it gets stronger everyday. No! I do not tend to hurt lovers or couples around me but I think to self! Friendship has more better. It is always better than love in all ways. When you love someone you need to care for them as if they were your child. Love is blind. It does not see anything beyond itself. Chances to dump the other person is always high because people change when they meet new people.
However people like to say love can be temporary while friendship will last longer. It is the choice of emotional investment amount, which could lead to greater passion with love, or less intense passion and closeness that fosters trust over time as friend. If you do not want more from that person there is less expectations. If you want more, and expectation not exceeded, then you are let down and the harmony has changed.
2)AHMAD AFANDI
To me friendship is more important then love because friendships last forever and love sometimes fail you. when your in trouble a friend is more likely to help you then a lover. Friends will always have your back when your down, but a lover may not. Your friend has seen you at your worst and they still love you. Your friend has probably been around longer than your lover. You don’t necessarily have more fun with your friend but it’s a different kind of fun. It feels more relaxed and honest. You don’t have to impress your best friend. You can be yourself. You’ve always been sure about your friend, but you sometimes doubt if your lover is really “the one.” Your friend is there for you after every break up and through every shitty ex. They will put you back together when you’re hurt. Your friend has probably done more for you in life, in terms of favors and life experience, than your boyfriend has. You should show them more appreciation.
NELY
"There is one thing better than making a new friend, and that is keeping the old one."
I do admit, there is the time that we need our lover and there is the time that we need our friends. I love both. I can't say that friends are more important than love, or love is more important than friends because friends and a lover playing an important role in my life, but with a different style... But both are half of my soul, a part of me. A lover is a place where you can share your problems, and a friend is a place for you to discuss and solve the problem. A friend can listen to your sadness and a lover might wipe your tears. And it can be that your best friend is your lover at a time. I don't want to say much because both are the reason for me to living.
REY
Friendship is more important than love. Because, if you have any problems the first person that will be there to help you is friends. Friends is a friend that always be with you in what ever situation, but love.? If you breakup with your lover who will you find to story all your problems.? Of course friends. But if there is no friends, who do you want to share about your problems. For me friends is everything, i love my friends. I only have one friend that always stay by my side in my ups and downs. My friend is like my family. Friend is everything.
NELY
"There is one thing better than making a new friend, and that is keeping the old one."
I do admit, there is the time that we need our lover and there is the time that we need our friends. I love both. I can't say that friends are more important than love, or love is more important than friends because friends and a lover playing an important role in my life, but with a different style... But both are half of my soul, a part of me. A lover is a place where you can share your problems, and a friend is a place for you to discuss and solve the problem. A friend can listen to your sadness and a lover might wipe your tears. And it can be that your best friend is your lover at a time. I don't want to say much because both are the reason for me to living.
REY
Friendship is more important than love. Because, if you have any problems the first person that will be there to help you is friends. Friends is a friend that always be with you in what ever situation, but love.? If you breakup with your lover who will you find to story all your problems.? Of course friends. But if there is no friends, who do you want to share about your problems. For me friends is everything, i love my friends. I only have one friend that always stay by my side in my ups and downs. My friend is like my family. Friend is everything.
Yasmine
Is friendship more important than love? Personally, I dont think friendship is more important than love, or vice versa. Each has it's own pros and cons, i can't say that it is better or not. I feel that we should have frienda for certain reasons and love for the same too. Friends aren't always your friend. They may seem genuine and kind to you infront of you but they might be backstabbing you. Same goes to love. Love is a beautiful thing. To find love is difficult. Especially if it's the real one. Not everyone is lucky to find their true love. But when you do, its the most beautiful thing ever. But when you get hurt, it scars you the most. To be honest, i really cant answer the question.
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